Friday, July 22, 2011

Stage Fright Alone Could Scare You To Death

And I never thought that I'd act this way
The way I act today makes me feel ashamed
And I know that I may have lost my way, may have been led astray
But I'll make it right some day

Click to Enjoy Scoundrels - Arrogance Blues

I believe that in every relationship debacle there is an opportunity for growth and connection. Of course there is also an opportunity for it to turn into a huge irreconcilable fight. Unfortunately, many of us fall too easily into the latter category. To avoid falling into the pit of relationship despair, several things have to happen. Two of which are: you must learn how to tolerate your own feelings when you've hurt someone and you must learn how to tend to the hurt you've caused your loved one. --Julie Cohen, MFT

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